With the creating of technology, specifically the internet, real life could be captured and played back. Essentially, any moment could become timeless. This is a major and drastic revolution of life through technology. It unlocks a new level of living. With this, inevitably, platforms such as OnlyFans have been created. The importance of this post is not about OnlyFans, but that some platform like it propagating virtual sex and seduction is alive. Since we live in a patriarchy (male dominated society), and most resources (money) is dominated by men, OnlyFans is a medium taking back some of that power. This is the topic of today and an important one. So, drop your preconceived notions, beliefs, and panties, because we are in for a ride.
Basically, the idea is that in a male-dominated patriarchy where men control the vast majority of the wealth and resources, the only way the oppressed could fight back is by retaining a part of their “value” and “product”. This is normal and expected after understanding the nature of humans, the dichotomy of gender, and basically that we need each other. However, when women are suffering and are not being treated right, one major way they connect with men is taken away from them. Yes, men choose who they marry, but women choose who they sleep with. What this means is that when technology is created, and a platform like OnlyFans emerges, women who hold back their power from all men force them to buy their OnlyFans. Basically, men are forced into a stalemate because the idea of gender is playing an endless and timeless game of chess where we must play forever. It’s an endless dance where if your partner falls, you will fall along because we need each other. Basically, men need sex; men don’t treat women nice; so, women only give sex to certain few which leads to the other men paying by the handful to women for virtual sex since that is a business women can survive on. Men need sex. Women need love, care, and special treatment. Men need this as well in the same fashion women need sex; they are true but they are not the best way to describe both genders in this point in time (I know, complicated right). This is our silent war. We must learn to work and appreciate each other for our differences (not only penis’s and vagina’s) before a great filter leads us to extinction. This is our nature; this is our human condition and one example painting The Human Condition Problem.
I will now address the problem with isolating one example and trying to answer it with the bigger picture: you leave out other arguments and immediate answers that have better immediate consequences. This is a very hard topic to answer so I will continue to talk about it, but basically, when trying to identify and come up with a solution for a disease by looking at one symptom, the best medicine for the symptom actually works against the disease? I’m trying to paint a picture (idea) with words (not paint) so bare with me. Basically, I know I am wrong according to the audience. I know, I understand; I hear you and I try my best to feel with you. I want to come up for a reason solving pressing problems we face today. It seems impossible maybe just because we need a new way of thinking. Maybe there isn’t a solution to our problems. I do not accept this and I think this is lousy. This is why I am taking the risk. However, I truly believe there is a solution. I know there are people who can live a peaceful and meaningful life under the worst circumstances. Now, in order to teach that to the world when you can’t put it to words seems impossible. Let me take the first step. Thank you.